January Challenge: Being True to You

Here we are in a New Year with a clean slate, a new start, new hopes and dreams to pursue... are you ready? 

Or do you feel like things will never change for you?  That you're just WAY TOO BUSY to make the changes in your life that you dream of?  I'm here to tell you something - - - you're wrong.  *grin*  This month's challenge is about being true to yourself... discovering what it is that YOU want for YOU!

Sorry to be blunt, but you DO have time to take care of you.  You, in fact, should be your very first priority when setting out on your day.  I *know* what it is like to put yourself last - I did it for over ten years.  I ignored the horrid state I'd let myself slip into.  I pretended that other things were more important to do than concentrating on my own health.  The truth was, I was ashamed to look at how bad I'd gotten in being overweight and in lack of fitness.  It was easier to sit my morbidly obese butt down on the couch at night after stopping at a fast-food drive thru (oh, and by the way, pretending that I was buying for a family rather than one person!!!) and watch television than to face the facts.  Something needed to change.

So... here is the January challenge that I submit to you to think about joining with me: Examine your inner-self and let yourself dream BIG dreams.  Write your January goal down. If you're used to being lethargic and sedentary, it is hard to BELIEVE that you truly can be walking 10-20 miles a week or running a 5k or - heck - just walking around the track ONCE or around the block ONCE.  But you know what? You can.  I know you can... and you - in your very depths of your being - know that YOU can.  But you have to believe that you can... and once you believe it, you'll attain that goal.

If you're overweight and want to lose weight, don't set yourself up for failure in your goals.  Don't say to yourself  "I'm going to lose 50 lbs by March".  That is 50 pounds in 12 weeks which means you're going to need to lose over 5 lbs a week.  Maybe you CAN do it... I know people who have.  But nutritionists have taught us that a healthy, maintainable goal for weight loss is somewhere between 1 and 3 lbs a week.  If you set your goals realistically to lose 2 lbs. a week... you'll have lost over 100 lbs. in a year.  Think about that achievable, HEALTHY goal: That is A LOT of weight!

I always suggest to friends to set small, achievable goals and then to set a new goal once that first one is attained.  So let's start by setting a 5lb goal of weight loss if you're looking to lose weight.  And then - once you have slain that first five pound dragon - let's go for the next five pounds. How 'bout that? : )

The first week of January, for the True2U challenge, put at least an hour aside by yourself, with no distractions, and think about what you truly want for your health and fitness.  Not what your spouse thinks you should do... not what your college roommate is doing, not what your Mom keeps telling you would be good for you.... what YOU want.  Maybe it is just to be able to do a DVD tape once a week and keep that promise to yourself.  Maybe it is that 5 lb goal.  Maybe it is to perfect the Lotus position in yoga.  You know what it is... if you're reading this, you've probably already had *that* thought go through your mind.  Week one of the challenge is just that:  examine your heart and set your goal solidly in your mind.  Write down your goal somewhere that you'll see it for the remainder of the month.  It doesn't have to be where anyone else sees it - it is up to you - but put that goal somewhere that you'll see it every single day of January.

The second week of January, the challenge is to begin to achieve that goal.  Figure out how you're going to achieve your goal.  Do you need to buy new pair of sneakers?  Do you need to ask someone to watch your children for an hour a week or barter with someone to trade an hour of babysitting so you can get out of the house and walk or go to the gym?  Maybe you need to visit the local library to borrow a DVD to try?  Whatever it is - week two of January is you concentrating on YOU and making your goal a priority in your life.

Onto week's three and four of January and this is where the fun starts!  Usually our challenges involve a certain number of "on track" days and "allowed days off", and January's challenge is no exception.  Between Saturday, January 16th and end of day, Monday, January 31st you have 12 days that you should be moving or working toward your specific goal.  That gives you four days off that you can "slip" during those 16 days.

Here is my True2U challenge plan.  I'm posting it here so you can have a concrete example of how this month's challenge could work for you.

WEEK ONE: My goal for January is to concentrate on daily meditation (something I do not currently do even though my HLG avatar sure looks like meditation!) and resume going to the YMCA three times a week.

WEEK TWO: I spent today writing in my journal my plans for how I would accomplish this and talked to the people who would be impacted by any changes in my daily routine.  I organized my gym bag for the Y and moved my yoga mat and daily devotional books to the space in my home where I'll be meditating first thing every morning.  (*I* did these things today, but you don't need to... these are steps to accomplish for week 2 of the challenge.)  Monday, Wednesday, and Friday weekly are my YMCA days... Saturday and Sunday are my bonus days when I hope to get there one of the two days to take a pilates or yoga class.  But M/W/F = YMCA.

WEEKS THREE & FOUR:  Rock 'n roll, baby!! I will be solidly in the midst of daily meditating and going to the Y three times weekly.  It will become my routine by then.  In these weeks, you should be moving, being grateful that you CAN move and are sticking to your goal and planning!  Feel great that you are doing what you set out to do and be proud of yourself.  Post here to encourage others and give yourself a pat on the back. : )

This month of January is going to set you up for the rest of the year.  You're going to accomplish great things in 2011 and feel so proud of yourself. 

And February? - you know that month when every t.v. commercial talks about finding your perfect partner and love being in the air... finding your perfect match?  We're going to have a February challenge about loving yourself - just as you are! : )

Here's to a great January for us all, friends! 

Dream. Believe. Achieve!
Jan / HealthyLoserGal


Anonymous January 2, 2011 at 10:23 PM  

Thank you for this post. I'm going to be true to me. I'm getting started right now! ;)

HealthyLoserGal January 2, 2011 at 11:04 PM  

Yay, Sylvia! So glad to have you join in this challenge with me! :)

Lisa Elliott January 3, 2011 at 7:41 AM  

HLG, I have the same goals. I found your post truly inspirational. I will try some meditation on the way to work and home (unless I am driving).

MsB1908 January 3, 2011 at 11:12 AM  

i just went to FB and looked at your progress pictures and began to cry. I am 5'8 with about 75-100 pounds to lose. It just seems overwhelming to me right now and I'm so afraid that I'm going to fail at trying to make it happen(again)...but you have inspired me that it can be done!

P.S..I have printed the January Challenge and I'm starting TODAY!

HealthyLoserGal January 3, 2011 at 11:48 AM  

Big hugs to you, MsB! I know that overwhelmed feeling, believe me. But you CAN do this... don't look at the 100 lbs... just concentrate on 5 lbs. or walking for 5 minutes. You'll soon be feeling less overwhelmed and proud of yourself for achieving that mini-goal & will *know* that this time you're sticking to your plans and on your way! :) Let me know how I can help!

HealthyLoserGal January 3, 2011 at 11:49 AM  

Lisa - good plan not to meditate while driving! lol I'm excited to have someone share the goals I have - and look forward to cheering one another on during the month!:)

HappyRN January 3, 2011 at 1:24 PM  

I am with you!! You know I am motivated and will keep on going!!

HealthyLoserGal January 3, 2011 at 3:58 PM  

You are doing so incredibly well, Sharon! I bet you hit 50 lbs. this month, gf! So glad you're in on the True2U challenge! :)

MizFit January 4, 2011 at 6:24 AM  

I love your blunt as I so very VERY much agree.

Bella January 4, 2011 at 10:37 PM  

This is such a great challenge, and I love that it's so organized; that's right up my alley. I'm so glad you've outlined what we're supposed to be working on for each week - that helps me stay on track.

Here's a link to my blog post where I wrote about my plan for this challenge: http://bellainlapbandland.com/2011/01/04/hyc-update-challenges-challenges-challenges/

BTW - I joined the MeYouHealth Daily Challenge, too. I'll add you.

LaShanda Glover January 7, 2011 at 8:42 PM  

Congratulations on your success and I enjoy your tweets and this blog.It is so important to be true to ourselves especially when it comes to our well being. keep up the great work!

Tanya @ Life in 3D January 8, 2011 at 9:38 AM  

Always enjoyed your tweets and just checked your blog for the first time..now following! I am embarking on my own health journey this new year and I'll be stopping in for inspiration. Thanks! :)

Melanie ( ff12a on twitter) January 9, 2011 at 10:20 PM  

Thanks for the post. I followed the plan in December, got very sick and just did the best I could. I did not stress out though if it didn't get done then I made no excuses I just threw up my hands and said oh well it didn't get done. January I had already started my own plan but I like yours too :) I signed up for a tough mudder in April so I need to get my butt in gear. The one thing that I am trying so hard to focus on is a "healthy me" instead of I lost 10 pounds ( or whatever). Basically I need to get active. Following inspiring people like you on twitter reminds me that sometimes I am important too. So when I see that you make it to the gym and see your progress it pushes me to get moving also! Thank you!!

HealthyLoserGal January 27, 2011 at 6:15 PM  

So how has everyone done last week and this week - the 2 active weeks - of the challenge? Have you been True 2 Yourself and kept your goals forefront in your mind and set out on a plan to accomplish them? I've done pretty good - have worked out at home when I couldn't make it to the YMCA. Post a comment here, would you?, to let me know how you've done - good or bad! :) Thanks!

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